The following list comprises the articles I have posted this year, so far. I have either written new articles, translated some that I wrote earlier in German, or updated older articles with new information and understanding:
- In the mainstream – part 2/2: The monogamous fallacy 2. April 2020
Added: A fascinating TED Talk by the couples therapist Esther Perel on secret affairs, where she discusses why people in a closed relationship pursue secret sexual activities, and how affected couples have a chance to reunite after an uncovered affair.
- Heart farts – part 2/6: What is a secondary relationship? 27. January 2020
Explained: More examples to explain the dynamics within a polycule that contains a secondary relationship.
- The poly community – part 1/4: What it means to be poly 4. January 2020
Added: Many personal experiences to explain my conclusions from 2016, when I left the poly community. A reaction to the personal stories of the former poly activist Inês Rôlo and the separation of Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert, the authors of the “poly bible” More Than Two, which seem to confirm many of my observations.